Spring is here! Everywhere you look there are books, magazines, websites and TV shows of beautiful houses, dream gardens and happy homeowners starting expensive projects. But what happens if these images don’t bear any resemblance to your reality? What happens if these images don’t have an energizing effect, but instead leave you feeling dissatisfied and a little envious, unsure of where to start and convinced you’ll never be able to make something beautiful because of where you live or how much money you have?
You’re not alone. Though it’s rarely talked about in an image driven marketplace, many of us look at our outside spaces and feel completely inadequate to the task of turning them into garden homes – especially if we are feeling trapped by economic uncertainties. But we must claim our living spaces, whatever they are, because they are just that – our living spaces. We nest here. We raise our kids, live our heartbreaks, and experience some of our greatest joys here. For gardeners, would-be gardeners, and if-only-I-had-the-perfect-place gardeners, we cheat ourselves if we keep waiting.
The good news is – it’s absolutely possible to create the garden that lives inside you. You just need a guide that understands where you’re coming from, what your limitations are and what you yearn to see when you walk outside. You need a guide that helps you turn your ‘ordinary’ into ‘extraordinary,’ a guide that unites you with the ‘why’ of gardening, even as it maps out the ‘how.’ Most importantly, you need a guide that helps you gain the perspective you need to make the garden you dream of.
Big Dreams, Small Garden was written as a result of my own experience and that of others who have created ideal gardens in less than ideal circumstances. Because I have experienced the great joy and accomplishment that can come from creating a beautiful outside space on my own terms and against numerous obstacles, I felt called to help other struggling gardeners experience that too.
It’s a stimulating, practical, often lighthearted book that explores the ways that claiming your outside space can reconnect you to your environment, your family, your neighbors and your community, and it’s broken down in easy-to-digest sections.
- In Visualize, readers are not only encouraged to dream and plan, but shepherded through the uncomfortable process of candidly facing their obstacles so those plans can become reality.
- In Achieve, they’re given methods to approach the design process, find resources, and build basic skills.
- Maintain helps readers plan for the often anti-climactic part of gardening – the everyday work – and successfully tailor those demands to their lifestyle.
- And in Enjoy, gardeners are challenged to make their outside space a dynamic part of their lives and the lives of their families and friends – not just a showpiece between front door and driveway.
Whether it’s seed starting or starting a garden bed from scratch, it helps to have someone in your corner letting you know you’re not alone and encouraging you to keep moving forward. If you have been mentally struggling with a challenging space, I hope that this year is the year you decide to start, and I hope that Big Dreams, Small Gardens helps you do it with inspiration, encouragement and laughter.
Don’t wait. Create.
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Marianne Willburn is the author of Big Dreams, Small Garden and is a weekly garden columnist in the Mid-Atlantic. She can be found online at www.smalltowngardener.com and on social media platforms as The Small Town Gardener.
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“Big Dreams, Small Garden: A Guide to Creating Something Extraordinary in Your Ordinary Space” is available now in bookstores, and online through Amazon and Barnes and Noble. Skyhorse. 203 pp. ISBN:1-5107-0912-6.
All photos above by Marianne Willburn